Some women approach me and ask ‘Florence, why should I wear jewelry?’ ‘It’s uncomfortable, I am good looking, I don’t have minor points to cover up, it’s expensive, I don’t like what is in the shops’ and many more arguments. Of course, I answer them personally, but I think it is wise to tell you all why you really should wear (the right) jewelry.
You might think uhhhh, I thought you wanted to talk about jewelry? But before I talk about the WHY, the WHAT and the HOW I want to make a remark.
There is a Dutch saying that says: ‘Al draagt een aap een gouden ring, het is en blijft een lelijk ding’. The literal translation is: ‘a monkey can wear a golden ring, it still can be an ugly creature’. The Dutch want to say with this saying that when you have a nasty character, you cannot cover that up with jewelry.
I found an English equivalent for this Dutch saying: ‘You cannot make a silk purse from a sow’s ear’. I hope that it’s clear now that jewelry and wearing jewelry has nothing to do with hiding or camouflage an ugly character. It’s really about something else.
When I see a lady, wearing a colorful gemstone necklace, a golden ring on her left hand and a little cross under that colorful necklace. She wears also long matching earrings and next to that some diamond studs. What do I see exactly?
I see a lady who feels happy at that time (colorful gemstone necklace) and she wants to be seen (large necklace, long earrings). She is married and a Catholic (golden ring on her left hand and a cross). And she can afford expensive jewelry, so probably she has a higher status in society (diamond studs).
This is not a scientific story, but an emotional one. This is the first impression of that person. My look at her. But you can ask: ‘why is she wearing exactly those pieces of jewelry?’. Those pieces are the result of her identity and her mood/feelings. And depending on the type of jewelry you can tell something where she comes from.
What happens when you meet a lady without any pieces of jewelry? She is more anonymous. You don’t know how she feels, where she comes from. It’s not a disaster not knowing that, but it is easier when you do. Easier for a first conversation, for a first impression. You know faster how to behave and probably you feel more comfortable when you ‘know’ who you are talking too.
When you want to know WHAT to wear, you can have a look at my jewelry collection of FlorenceJewelshop. If you need advice just let me know by email and I help you out.
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